Saturday 14 November 2009

Wife and WIFI : The life that's today : Its all about priorities, we set


The last 6 months have been a mashed up mixed emotion period, challenging, tough, exciting, talking to wife, cooking, parties, wife's accelerated short visit, Most of the valuable time in life goes smearing the internet like "innocent jam splash on an infants lips and cheeks".
Naukri has taken the backend to quite an extent :(
...Again what are we arriving at?
...On the flip side, people always are running after what they dont have..if you have ever noticed, we always run after the tings that try to run away from us, seldom is the situation that , "something runs into you"
Today's post is slightly sensitive and definately contains a message....
So if you are a person who doesnt give a f**k about sensible graffiti, then stop right here....... dont read further
Debate...Debacle
Define Onsite?
Its something that you crave for as an individual atleast sometime in your career and bug your reporting manager until he yields :)
Why do you want Onsite?
Now, truth is a little difficult to accept, but I'm laying these points from my personal experience with rhetoric folks I've bumped into, while in Firang land, on priority let me put them in reverse chronological order
- Money is the driver, the conversion rates, the positive greed (necessity driven) to pile up is the fuelling fact for most, in short earn a quick buck
- Affordability and Quality of Life: getting international experience, facing clients, trying to shift employer for a lucrative package. If we are localizing US (then in short, a Green Card, a Posh affordable car, independence, 150-160K package)
- Choosing the Easy way Out: Running away from problems (problems: in-laws, challenges of putting up with relatives, running away from a past, forgetting a loved one
- Now the funnier part : Posting Pics on Orkut / Proving it to some people back offshore that "I'm lucky, you aint", trying to brush jealousy, dont try and hide that shady side of every human, if not you you would have come accross some folks who do so.....
Its all about priorities we set, I aint an onsite basher, dont get me wrong !!!!
Living outside is fun, seeing places, driving the best car to having the whip free independence is a welcome for anyone, Its just that, dont get too touchy of long distance relationships, having a loved one on-boad will add spice to the mundane life, where you will have Hubby or Wife along and not WIFI (connected to the internet, every second from the time you wake up till you sleep)
....redefine life, define it big !!!! define it for a short term plethora that will take you long term and buy that happiness that will take you a long way in life.
In the words of Steve Jobs "Connect the Dots", you'll know where you had to reach !!!
What do you think?

3 comments:

Unknown said...

Well written i enjoyed reading it.

Rakesh Davanagere said...

I liked it :) Way to buddy ....


Rakesh

Joyee said...

thanks a lot dudes, stay connected with the next post already there

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